I received quite a few phones style
"You gotta help me! You do not understand what I'm going through! I left
him. It's been two months. He just does not stop. He sends me SMS messages
about how I was mean, he's calling and cursing me, he even talked to someone
leaving with him and told him I hurt him and he'd better not go out with me
".Separating
injured men is a common occurrence and I'm sure most readers here know the
phenomenon. Quite a few girls coming into this awful vortex of a man who can
not get better separation. Sometimes the men themselves are the ones who initiate the
separation, but when they do so with regret and pain, they can still be very
difficult even Maxim.
So why is this happening?
Like I said before it is situations where the man comes out very damaged relationship.For men with low self-esteem or inflated egos. They will not accept the fact that the relationship was over, they would like to continue, but all sorts of reasons see it not happen. They change the positive attention she got from the couple negative attention, attention of fear, vulnerability, pain and sadness. Usually the pain of separation is replaced by their anger and need for revenge that she hung up contacts with them. The fact that control over their lost partner more difficult to control than they tax it in different ways. This is usually men who are trying to fill the gap of lack of confidence in their control. Controlling everything about them. On their partner, they feel the need to control more than anything else. To them if it did not dominate, they will lose it. These men are usually very zealous in the relationship, the woman is forbidden to all sorts of things and sometimes even ties with some friends. All these men happen to most difficult insecurity comes from the feeling that they can at any moment lose their partner.
Okay, and how to handle it?
Lhlkcn it would be easier and Lhlkichn that would be difficult but the way she played it so do not care. Those men feed your fear, your vulnerability and your insult. If you see them no matter what he does, it just does not move so he realizes he must move on and he's wasting his time. It's not going to be magic and the moment you act as if it does not move so it will go away. It will take time and even more difficult will be slow. When he sees no move so he tries harder, he would try to sensitive areas. He tries to tell you the things that most hurt Well. This does not mean he really think so, absolutely not. It just means that he begins to despair and take all the weapons he has. Some things are very rough, so you can stand it. If you have to cry it's okay, but with a good friend and not him.Opposite will be the most powerful that you can. When he tries to hit well in every way possible and understand that this is not going to move on.
If you are in a difficult situation, you do not know what to do, Nissitn everything it did not work - You're welcome to write me a response here or contact me personally by email.I'll do what I can to help you in this simple non.
Thanks to all readers. Love? Please send comment and tell me about it! =]
So why is this happening?
Like I said before it is situations where the man comes out very damaged relationship.For men with low self-esteem or inflated egos. They will not accept the fact that the relationship was over, they would like to continue, but all sorts of reasons see it not happen. They change the positive attention she got from the couple negative attention, attention of fear, vulnerability, pain and sadness. Usually the pain of separation is replaced by their anger and need for revenge that she hung up contacts with them. The fact that control over their lost partner more difficult to control than they tax it in different ways. This is usually men who are trying to fill the gap of lack of confidence in their control. Controlling everything about them. On their partner, they feel the need to control more than anything else. To them if it did not dominate, they will lose it. These men are usually very zealous in the relationship, the woman is forbidden to all sorts of things and sometimes even ties with some friends. All these men happen to most difficult insecurity comes from the feeling that they can at any moment lose their partner.
Okay, and how to handle it?
Lhlkcn it would be easier and Lhlkichn that would be difficult but the way she played it so do not care. Those men feed your fear, your vulnerability and your insult. If you see them no matter what he does, it just does not move so he realizes he must move on and he's wasting his time. It's not going to be magic and the moment you act as if it does not move so it will go away. It will take time and even more difficult will be slow. When he sees no move so he tries harder, he would try to sensitive areas. He tries to tell you the things that most hurt Well. This does not mean he really think so, absolutely not. It just means that he begins to despair and take all the weapons he has. Some things are very rough, so you can stand it. If you have to cry it's okay, but with a good friend and not him.Opposite will be the most powerful that you can. When he tries to hit well in every way possible and understand that this is not going to move on.
If you are in a difficult situation, you do not know what to do, Nissitn everything it did not work - You're welcome to write me a response here or contact me personally by email.I'll do what I can to help you in this simple non.
Thanks to all readers. Love? Please send comment and tell me about it! =]
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