Sunday, September 25, 2011

This is the way to know when the separation is the solution

"I left him." Opened container, social work, the morning. "Good morning to you too" I replied. She ignored what I said had not heard and said it was over. The smile on her face betrayed me and I asked if that pleases her. To my surprise she replied "I just got it, that's not what it was." The reason her words surprised me was that a few days it seemed she was in the clouds, we add to that the fact that they were together only two months and we get quite a surprising picture. It was not long before I realized what a group of experienced separation separations among container. When I told her she appeared in the clouds a few days ago she replied, "Exactly, that's the problem! It's all so ordinary, boring". Michal said that humor is easy, but I'm not sure how she understood the meaning of what she said. Falling in love is an emotion, but a full set of emotions. Actually falling in love is the most complex emotion system our minds. Falling in love is created that requires Hmonal to exist and we must supply her needs, not numbered, and sometimes a bit illogical to leave it. 

Many times that we feel that the relationship had run its course, that the click was, no fireworks, it was not the same. Sometimes that feeling is correct and it is time to renew, but sometimes it is the failure of the couple feeding, growth and correct development of their love and infatuation. In the case of container can point to the separation was done that "failure" like that. A two-month relationship is a relationship obsolete and exhausted itself. Is a relationship whose owners have neglected her and let her fade to a state of abandonment. Involved the couple to excite each other and feed the emotions of this.According to what we were taught evolution Htaichoti is challenging, hard to get and then the expression "playing hard to get". Play hard to get this thing known mating games do, but our mistake is thinking the game was stopped as soon as we are as a couple. It really never stops, we must continue to challenge each other to keep the love, the relationship, the passion. 

When we feel at a Zogyno that already have achieved it and it our all of our evolutionary brain decides to just drop in on too easy a target and we can get something better. 
This is why we run away from relationships of dependence or obsessive. The goal is to challenge, to make our fair son feel like he captures our hearts every day. This gives us a sense of return to the daily increases our self confidence, while white Zogyno the feeling that every day he manages to capture us again, touch us and bring us closer. 

Love is a game that contains two players who play on the same side. If they lose then win then lose if they win. We love playing against each other when both of us a common goal we want to achieve but only together. War never get the other not over, and every day in the evening, in the bedroom, we see the day ends in victory for us.

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